• Re: Anonymous email users

    From dn@21:1/5 to AVI GROSS via Python-list on Sat Jun 15 10:30:36 2024
    On 15/06/24 10:00, AVI GROSS via Python-list wrote:
    I notice that in some recent discussions, we have users who cannot be
    replied to directly as their email addresses are not valid ones, and I believe on purpose. Examples in the thread I was going to reply to are:
    ...

    It's an interesting conundrum. There are good reasons and nefarious, for
    such behavior.

    Some have questioned my behavior in similar regard - asking why I use
    initials (also used IRL). It is because my first name "David" is/was
    very popular. At a meeting this week there were three of us. Thus,
    "David", "Dave", and "dn" was necessary to distinguish between us.


    These mailing-lists all run under the Python Code of Conduct.

    This also effects a conundrum. Firstly, that someone abusing others (for example) shall be held responsible. Secondly, that in order to hold
    someone responsible, he/she/... must be identifiable.


    Personal opinion: if someone is asked a
    question/clarification/sample-code, particularly as a response to their
    own OP, and does not answer; this is at the least rude, and thus
    disrespectful, or at worst grounds for not bothering with them again -
    hardly a 'community' attitude!

    --
    Regards,
    =dn

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  • From Cameron Simpson@21:1/5 to avi.e.gross@gmail.com on Sat Jun 15 11:34:16 2024
    On 14Jun2024 18:00, avi.e.gross@gmail.com <avi.e.gross@gmail.com> wrote:
    I notice that in some recent discussions, we have users who cannot be
    replied to directly as their email addresses are not valid ones, and I >believe on purpose. Examples in the thread I was going to reply to are:

    <mailto:HenHanna@devnull.tb> HenHanna@devnull.tb
    [...]
    I know some here suggest that we only reply to the wider community and
    they
    have a point. But I think there is a role for having some conversations >offline and especially when they are not likely to be wanted, or even >tolerated, by many in the community.

    Using such fake or invalid emails makes it hard to answer the person
    directly or perhaps politely ask them for more info on their request or >discuss unrelated common interests. Worse, when I reply, unless I use >reply-all, my mailer sends to them futilely. When I do the reply-all, I have >to edit out their name or get a rejection.

    I often reply-all (meaning to the list and to the author). And edit the
    headers (frankly, often just to discard anything @gmail.com which has
    very stupid spam poolicies). If I miss an @invalid.com or whatever,
    then whoops.

    If I want to reply directly (eg for some kind of feedback rather than a
    list type reply) and they've got a bogus address, well then I don't.
    Supposedly my reply would be of benefit for them or I shouldn't be doing
    it, so their loss. But equally, if they don't want personal off-list
    contact, they've expressed their preference. I should respect that.

    Plenty of people have reasons to post anonymously, even to a list like
    this one. Just assume they've got their reasons and move on.

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  • From Marco Moock@21:1/5 to All on Sat Jun 15 08:02:58 2024
    On 15.06.2024 um 10:30 Uhr dn wrote:

    These mailing-lists all run under the Python Code of Conduct.

    This also effects a conundrum. Firstly, that someone abusing others
    (for example) shall be held responsible. Secondly, that in order to
    hold someone responsible, he/she/... must be identifiable.

    The mailing list has a Usenet gateway

    Those users use the Usenet to post.
    Check the Injection-Info header for the address of the news server
    operator. He can identify the account that posted it.

    --
    kind regards
    Marco

    Send spam to 1718440236muell@cartoonies.org

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  • From Lawrence D'Oliveiro@21:1/5 to Marco Moock on Sat Jun 15 06:41:39 2024
    On Sat, 15 Jun 2024 08:02:58 +0200, Marco Moock wrote:

    The mailing list has a Usenet gateway

    Not sure why. We don’t care what happens on the mailing list, why do they care about us?

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  • From Roel Schroeven@21:1/5 to AVI GROSS via Python-list on Mon Jun 17 19:29:18 2024
    AVI GROSS via Python-list schreef op 17/06/2024 om 17:03:
    I simply am thinking that people who do not allow me to easily reply to them directly, should be ignored by me and not get my cooperation that way.
    FWIW, personally I (mostly) don't see the point of replying to people personally. To me a public mailing list is much like any public forum,
    where my expectation is that conversations happen in public. To me it
    always feels weird when I get a personal reply when I make a public post
    in a mailing list. I mostly ignore those, unless there's really
    something in it that's best kept out of the public. Sometimes people
    write long mails with wandering thoughts only loosely related to the
    topic at hand directly to me instead of to the whole list. My take is:
    if it's not on-topic enough for the list, it's not on-topic enough for
    me either. Not that it bothers me *that* much; I just ignore those. It's
    very well possible that's just me, and that other people have different expectations.

    But I don't go hiding my email address, that's a whole different kettle.

    --
    "Let everything happen to you
    Beauty and terror
    Just keep going
    No feeling is final"
    -- Rainer Maria Rilke

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  • From dn@21:1/5 to Roel Schroeven via Python-list on Tue Jun 18 11:51:04 2024
    On 18/06/24 05:29, Roel Schroeven via Python-list wrote:
    AVI GROSS via Python-list schreef op 17/06/2024 om 17:03:
    I simply am thinking that people who do not allow me to easily reply
    to them
    directly, should be ignored by me and not get my cooperation that way.
    FWIW, personally I (mostly) don't see the point of replying to people personally. To me a public mailing list is much like any public forum,
    where my expectation is that conversations happen in public. To me it
    always feels weird when I get a personal reply when I make a public post
    in a mailing list. I mostly ignore those, unless there's really
    something in it that's best kept out of the public. Sometimes people
    write long mails with wandering thoughts only loosely related to the
    topic at hand directly to me instead of to the whole list. My take is:
    if it's not on-topic enough for the list, it's not on-topic enough for
    me either. Not that it bothers me *that* much; I just ignore those. It's
    very well possible that's just me, and that other people have different expectations.

    +1

    The "public" part is not to embarrass posters, but recognition that
    there are likely other people 'out there' (or arriving in-future if they
    care to read the archives) experiencing a similar problem. (hence need
    for descriptive Subject lines - isn't the most difficult task in
    programming 'choosing names'?)

    Yes, like @Avi, I have been known to contact folk directly. However,
    such for personal purposes - as distinct from the list, and possibly
    subjects OT for the list.

    When contacted by others off-list, I play it by ear - ignore, personal,
    or post response on-list. (some lists/email-clients do seem to prefer
    personal replies, even when incoming message is from a list - so easy accident.)

    The Delete-key is your friend!

    --
    Regards,
    =dn

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  • From Mats Wichmann@21:1/5 to dn via Python-list on Tue Jun 18 11:45:21 2024
    On 6/17/24 17:51, dn via Python-list wrote:

    +1

    The "public" part is not to embarrass posters, but recognition that
    there are likely other people 'out there' (or arriving in-future if they
    care to read the archives) experiencing a similar problem. (hence need
    for descriptive Subject lines - isn't the most difficult task in
    programming 'choosing names'?)

    well, one of two, along with cache invalidation and off-by-one errors (according to the wags).

    I do agree with this, but mailman (2) archives aren't particularly
    useful for searching, as they're organized in monthly chunks and you
    have to keep clicking around - this list doesn't have a search engine as
    it's not converted to be one of the mailman 3 lists.

    There are supposed to be some search engine incantations to make this
    better. I find this one works, though I can never actually remember it
    and have to go hunting again each time... picking a random-ish subject
    line from this list in the past:

    site:mail.python.org inurl:Python-list multiplication

    I don't know that we publicise such methods (there are probably others).

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  • From Sebastian Wells@21:1/5 to avi.e.gross on Sun Jun 23 05:58:17 2024
    On Fri, 14 Jun 2024 18:00:37 -0400, avi.e.gross wrote:

    I notice that in some recent discussions, we have users who cannot be
    replied to directly as their email addresses are not valid ones, and I believe on purpose. Examples in the thread I was going to reply to are:

    <mailto:HenHanna@devnull.tb> HenHanna@devnull.tb

    <mailto:no.email@nospam.invalid> no.email@nospam.invalid

    <mailto:candycanearter07@candycanearter07.nomail.afraid> candycanearter07@candycanearter07.nomail.afraid (user <candycane> is generated from /dev/urandom)

    I know some here suggest that we only reply to the wider community and
    they have a point. But I think there is a role for having some
    conversations offline and especially when they are not likely to be
    wanted, or even tolerated, by many in the community.

    Using such fake or invalid emails makes it hard to answer the person
    directly or perhaps politely ask them for more info on their request or discuss unrelated common interests. Worse, when I reply, unless I use reply-all, my mailer sends to them futilely. When I do the reply-all, I
    have to edit out their name or get a rejection.


    The spammers won the spam wars, so even if you have someone's real
    e-mail address, that's no guarantee that you can contact them. You
    certainly wouldn't be able to contact me at my real e-mail address,
    unless you also had my phone number, so you could call me and tell
    me that you sent me an e-mail, and what the subject line was so I
    can find it. I don't even open my e-mail inbox unless there's a
    specific message I'm expecting to find there right now.

    With e-mail addresses being phone-validated, it's not easy to create
    a new one either. And even if I did, you can't even trust e-mail
    providers not to give your address out to spammers.

    The only function e-mail addresses serve now is to positively identify
    the sender of a Usenet posting so he can be targeted for harassment,
    lawsuits, or worse.

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  • From Barry Scott@21:1/5 to All on Mon Jun 24 10:51:38 2024
    On 23 Jun 2024, at 06:58, Sebastian Wells via Python-list <python-list@python.org> wrote:

    The spammers won the spam wars, so even if you have someone's real
    e-mail address, that's no guarantee that you can contact them. You
    certainly wouldn't be able to contact me at my real e-mail address,
    unless you also had my phone number, so you could call me and tell
    me that you sent me an e-mail, and what the subject line was so I
    can find it. I don't even open my e-mail inbox unless there's a
    specific message I'm expecting to find there right now.

    My email address is well known and yes I get spam emails.

    I use the wonderful python based spambayes software to detect spam and
    file into a Junk folder. It works for 99.9% of the emails I get.

    I am subscribed to a lot of mailing lists. I just checked and I am getting ~3,200
    emails a month of which less than 200 are spam.

    A few years ago the spam count was greater than a 1,000 a month.

    I have been using spambayes for a very long time, 20 years I guess at this point and bayesian categorisation has stood the test of time for me.

    For me the spammers have not won, I have the tech to keep ahead of them.

    Barry

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  • From Thomas Passin@21:1/5 to Barry Scott via Python-list on Mon Jun 24 13:17:13 2024
    On 6/24/2024 5:51 AM, Barry Scott via Python-list wrote:


    On 23 Jun 2024, at 06:58, Sebastian Wells via Python-list <python-list@python.org> wrote:

    The spammers won the spam wars, so even if you have someone's real
    e-mail address, that's no guarantee that you can contact them. You
    certainly wouldn't be able to contact me at my real e-mail address,
    unless you also had my phone number, so you could call me and tell
    me that you sent me an e-mail, and what the subject line was so I
    can find it. I don't even open my e-mail inbox unless there's a
    specific message I'm expecting to find there right now.

    My email address is well known and yes I get spam emails.

    I use the wonderful python based spambayes software to detect spam and
    file into a Junk folder. It works for 99.9% of the emails I get.

    I use the Thunderbird mail client and I just use its built in spam
    detector. I don't know how it works but it's pretty darn good. Very
    few false positives or false negatives. And it learns each time I
    classify a message as "Junk", in case it missed one.

    I am subscribed to a lot of mailing lists. I just checked and I am getting ~3,200
    emails a month of which less than 200 are spam.

    A few years ago the spam count was greater than a 1,000 a month.

    I have been using spambayes for a very long time, 20 years I guess at this point and bayesian categorisation has stood the test of time for me.

    For me the spammers have not won, I have the tech to keep ahead of them.

    Barry


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  • From dn@21:1/5 to Thomas Passin via Python-list on Tue Jun 25 10:29:08 2024
    On 25/06/24 05:17, Thomas Passin via Python-list wrote:
    On 6/24/2024 5:51 AM, Barry Scott via Python-list wrote:


    On 23 Jun 2024, at 06:58, Sebastian Wells via Python-list
    <python-list@python.org> wrote:

    The spammers won the spam wars, so even if you have someone's real
    e-mail address, that's no guarantee that you can contact them. You
    certainly wouldn't be able to contact me at my real e-mail address,
    unless you also had my phone number, so you could call me and tell
    me that you sent me an e-mail, and what the subject line was so I
    can find it. I don't even open my e-mail inbox unless there's a
    specific message I'm expecting to find there right now.

    My email address is well known and yes I get spam emails.

    I use the wonderful python based spambayes software to detect spam and
    file into a Junk folder. It works for 99.9% of the emails I get.

    I use the Thunderbird mail client and I just use its built in spam detector.  I don't know how it works but it's pretty darn good.  Very
    few false positives or false negatives.  And it learns each time I
    classify a message as "Junk", in case it missed one.

    I am subscribed to a lot of mailing lists. I just checked and I am
    getting ~3,200
    emails a month of which less than 200 are spam.

    A few years ago the spam count was greater than a 1,000 a month.

    I have been using spambayes for a very long time, 20 years I guess at
    this
    point and bayesian categorisation has stood the test of time for me.

    For me the spammers have not won, I have the tech to keep ahead of them.

    Aside from the attractions of the new, and the 'shiny', what
    email-antagonists didn't anticipate, was that as fast as they moved to non-email messaging, the spammers, advertisers, and malcontents would
    simply do the same. Thus, a variation on whack-a-mole, as folk move from platform to platform trying to stay-ahead and find an illusion of
    safety. Quite how one out-runs human-nature is an issue
    philosophised-over by the (Ancient) Greeks (and was no-doubt old even-then).

    Paradoxically, applying for an account elsewhere usually involves
    providing an email address. Even backing-up a cell-phone (communication
    tool) to the cloud requires an email address(!!!)

    Most of the non-email platforms are provided by organisations who have
    'other uses' for your personal-data (and not forgetting GMail and MSFT's
    email services).

    Python mailing-lists are covered by the Code of Conduct and monitored by ListAdmins. Thus, there are controls which limit the impact which
    advertisers and others with non-pythonic aims might otherwise exert!

    --
    Regards,
    =dn

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  • From Anton Shepelev@21:1/5 to All on Tue Jun 25 12:09:22 2024
    Sebastian Wells:

    The spammers won the spam wars, so even if you have
    someone's real e-mail address, that's no guarantee that
    you can contact them.

    No so with me. My e-mail address here is munged, but in a
    very obvious way, and no, my mailbox is not overwhelmed with
    spam.

    I make a habit of reporting spam via:

    1. https://www.spamcop.net/anonsignup.shtml
    2. https://submit.spamhaus.org/submit/

    They maintain blacklists of e-mail providers or notify them
    of spam e-mails. It helps.

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  • From Anton Shepelev@21:1/5 to All on Tue Jun 25 12:59:54 2024
    Chris Angelico to dn:

    Python mailing-lists are covered by the Code of Conduct
    and monitored by ListAdmins. Thus, there are controls
    which limit the impact which advertisers and others with
    non-pythonic aims might otherwise exert!

    So long as there's a newsgroup gateway, those controls are
    toothless.

    The gateway operator can have the usual anti-spam software
    installed, and of course there is Gmane:

    <https://gmane.io/>

    which actually subscribes users to mailing lists (on their
    behalf). Gmane's NNTP server is: news.gmane.io .

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