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Here s an email I sent to
whitecoat@cbc.ca as a followup to
CBC Radio One’s White Coat, Black Art’s show on women’s
sexual health problems, including lack of libido or declining
libido with age.
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Hello,
Many problems with low or declining with age libido
can be related to lack of optimal sexual compatibility.
With that in mind, my EIght Sexual Harmonics theory,
summarized on
https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/8H.html ,
may be of interest.
According to that theory, the following relationships
are optimally sexually compatible (and note that
I define bisexual as attracted to both genders, not
necessarily having sex with both genders, so
there are far more bisexuals than have been reported):
straight-type-1-M--straight-type-1-F
straight-type-2-M--bif
straight-type-2-F--bim
(those lock for life)
bif--bif
bif--lesbian
lesbian--lesbian
bim--bim
bim--gay
gay--gay
(those haven't locked for life but may start doing so).
The following relationships are partially compatible (compatible,
but less than optimally sexually compatible, and will not lock
for life, and may have declining libido more often):
straight-type-1-M--bif
straight-type-1-F--bim
bif--bim (who often go bye bye).
The following relationships are incompatible but there
has been one-way attraction, which may have stopped.
Such relationships may have resulted in adverse
physical and mental health effects for the one who
is deceived, in a black widow/er effect, even terminal
cancer in some cases:
straight-type-1-M--lesbian
bim--lesbian
straight-type-1-F--gay
bif--gay.
The following relationships are incompatible and
there may be one-way attraction but no ill-health effects,
and again the one way attraction (of straight-type-1
to straight-type-2) may have stopped:
straight-type-1-M--straight-type-2-F
straight-type-1-F--straight-type-2-M.
The following relationships are incompatible
and there would be no attraction:
straight-type-2-M--straight-type-2-F
gay--lesbian.
However sometimes there are platonic friendship
parenting units of gay--lesbian, and sometimes two
such units form fence-jumping foursomes, more
often in countries that repress gays and lesbians.
My theory also covers transgender and multi-spirit
(two-spirit and four-spirit, many of whom identify
as queer or non-binary) individuals.
The web page is fairly rough/sketchy for now, but I
may develop it into an arxiv.org (
http://arxiv.org) electronic preprint sometime soon.
I identify as straight-type-2-F (male compatible, orgasmic
up close, only with bifs, women attracted to both genders).
Straight-type-2 women would be women compatible,
orgasmic up close, only with bims, men attracted to
both genders.
p.s.
I forgot to mention that there is bridge/friendship/spiritual/trust
attraction between straight-type-2-M and lesbian who is happily
lesbian, and between straight-type-2-F and gay who is happily gay.
Thus there are sometimes incompatible platonic parenting duos of straight-type-2-M--lesbian
and
straight-type-2-F--gay
with no ill-health effects.
p.p.s. The “may start”/“may have”’s above may come to pass as
early as Saturday evening, after new/dark moon, an auspicious
time for new beginnings. I am also trying to make most
couples optimally sexually compatible (a minority already were).
(That was not part of my email.)
--
https://www.nfld.com/~dalton/dtales.html Salmon on the Thorns (mystic page) “Early morning, jubilators, up to no good, instigators... Sons of long forgotten races, that the darkest night embraces” (Ron Hynes & D.O’D)
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