• State Abuse Survivor Eugene Ryder On Abuse, Gangs And His =?UTF-8?B?S2l

    From Lawrence D'Oliveiro@21:1/5 to All on Tue Apr 8 23:56:50 2025
    First-hand views of someone who suffered abuse both at home and in
    state care, and who has done crime and been in a gang <https://www.nzherald.co.nz/kahu/state-abuse-survivor-eugene-ryder-on-abuse-gangs-and-his-kings-service-medal/IGIGU74S5FBPFGG3LYGU2OQG5M/>.
    Nowadays, he tries to keep the next generation from making the
    mistakes he made.

    His point is simple: the right person for the job isn’t always the
    one who shares your whakapapa. “Don’t think that you’ll get a
    Māori kid and a Māori social worker and some f***ing magic is
    going to happen because of the colour of their skin or the blood
    in their veins,” he says.

    Interesting there is no mention of culture in there, only genes.

    Ryder’s father – also in prison – had a “very dark side”, he says.
    A minister in the church, he was also an abuser.

    As others have pointed out elsewhere, religions can be too much like
    gangs, can’t they?

    Justice Minister Paul Goldsmith has pointed out that gang members
    make up less than a quarter of 1% of the population but are linked
    to nearly 20% of serious violent crime. Ryder says that’s
    misleading. “It’s not actually gang members – it’s people linked
    with gangs. That could be father, older brother, older cousin …”

    I’m not sure that’s a good defence. If just a loose association with a
    gang is going to make you prone to commit serious violent crime, then
    that makes gangs look even worse.

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