• cutting off my Cox; the DVR that died

    From anim8rfsk@21:1/5 to All on Tue Jul 22 21:09:44 2025
    Almost exactly 2 years ago Cox did some maintenance outside and when they
    put things back together, they put the wrong limiter clip in my external
    cable box. I had for years had the 500 Mbps service and they knocked me
    back to my previous service of 300 Mbps.

    I spoke to many tech-support people in the days since. The first one
    insisted I had to restart my computer. I told her I didn’t have a computer.
    I was on an iPhone. She told me I had to restart the iPhone. I told her
    that the text chat we were on would be gone. She insisted my phone would
    come back on and the chat would light right up. I knew she was crazy, but I also realized there was no further point in talking to her. I did make her
    give me case numbers and references so I could start over with the new guy, which she did.

    So after I restarted the phone and she was gone, I got a new guy and gave
    him the numbers and he refused to do anything with it and we started over.
    He said I had to buy all new equipment and that you have to replace your equipment every two years And that you have to buy it from the Cox store.
    May I point out that he was lying? Anyway, he refused to send anybody out without charging me $75 even though I pay $10 a month to get free service calls.

    Since I was getting the 300 speed, I tried to get him to knock me back down
    to the 300 service I was actually getting and he adamantly refused and said
    you can’t ever go back.

    So I didn’t bother any further with him. And in the weeks and months that followed called several times and always hit the barrier where they won’t send somebody out without charging me $75. A couple of times they got them
    to agree to a free service call but then I immediately got an email that
    said if I didn’t cancel it, they were going to charge me $75.

    Two weeks ago, they knocked out my service on and off for most of a week
    for planned maintenance.

    Every night between 4 and 6 AM the DVR reboots to get a program guide
    update. This is supposed to take five minutes. Since the recent planned maintenance, the reboot time takes longer every day. Right now I am at something like 17 hours of it trying to reboot and trying software reboots
    that simply tell you to unplug it instead and I’ve unplugged it a dozen
    times ranging from a few seconds to a half an hour. The poor thing just
    keeps trying to reboot.

    So barring a miracle, it’s dead, Jim.

    Since Cox dumped our email service a year or two ago the brand really
    doesn’t matter so much to me anymore. And every possible avenue results in
    me losing the DVR and all the accrued programming so I see no point in
    keeping the service. Also, with a new DVR, they insist on sending out an installer who will spend four hours measuring the signal in every room in
    my house and putting in repeaters. Said repeaters require you not only
    renting them monthly but paying a usage fee as well. This ain’t gonna
    happen.

    So my first step will be to try T-Mobile wireless home Internet. I’ve
    heard nothing but good things about it (until quite recently where people
    are saying that it’s going out and slowing down a lot as they get overextended for the current infrastructure). My big problem is figuring
    out all the stuff I have connected and what my new set up will be. The
    T-Mobile modem needs to be in a window and things connected to it
    wirelessly. So I guess I need a router that will connect to it wirelessly
    that I can plug the hardwire equipment into and hopefully let the Wi-Fi equipment go straight to the modem.

    Buckle your seatbelts, it’s going to be a bumpy ride.





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  • From Your Name@21:1/5 to All on Wed Jul 23 17:10:08 2025
    On 2025-07-23 04:09:44 +0000, anim8rfsk said:
    <snip>
    So my first step will be to try T-Mobile wireless home Internet. I’ve heard nothing but good things about it (until quite recently where people
    are saying that it’s going out and slowing down a lot as they get overextended for the current infrastructure). My big problem is figuring
    out all the stuff I have connected and what my new set up will be. The T-Mobile modem needs to be in a window and things connected to it
    wirelessly. So I guess I need a router that will connect to it wirelessly that I can plug the hardwire equipment into and hopefully let the Wi-Fi equipment go straight to the modem.

    Since I'm not in America, I don't know about T-mobile in particular,
    but we have been using a home mobile phone internet connection for a
    few years now. First with Vodafone NZ when I had to replace my dead
    computer and could no longer use the dial-up modem, and then switched
    to Spark (previously Telecom NZ) when the copper line service was
    stopped for for our home phone.

    Both were using their supplied modem-routers and they worked / work
    fine. The modem-router sits on a low cabinet beside my work desk
    roughly in the middle of the house the house. It is near to a window
    (about 2-3 metres away), but not actually in the window nor direct line
    of sight to the window because of the desk. The modem-router is facing
    away from an internal wall, on the other side of which is the house's
    main entrance hallway. My Mac is plugged into the modem-router via
    ethernet and the iPad connects wirelessly. Our home phone line is via a
    main base cordless phone plugged into the modem-router and there is
    another cordless phone in the kitchen that wirelessly connects to that
    base phone. Someone else has a Samsung mobile phone that also connects wirelessly to the modem-router for internet when at home. The two
    wireless devices and the two cordless home phones work fine from any
    room in the house or in the garden. (Being a suburban area, I can see
    many other wirelss networks in use in other surrounding houses, plus no
    doubt there are some hidden ones like ours.)

    T-mobile has three different modem-routers on their website, but they
    all have two ethernet ports on the back, so you should be able to plug
    in any devices that you want to have a wired connection. You would only
    need a separate router / switch / hub box if you've got more than two
    wired devices. All three modem-routers do have a USB port too, so you
    might be able to use a USB hub and some USB-Ethernet adaptors to
    connect more wired devices, although the USB ports on modem-routers
    usually aren't designed for that usage. <https://www.t-mobile.com/support/home-internet/t-mobile-gateway?INTNAV=tNav%3ASupport%3AWiFiGatewayDevice#gateway>

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  • From shawn@21:1/5 to All on Wed Jul 23 02:13:28 2025
    On Tue, 22 Jul 2025 21:09:44 -0700, anim8rfsk <anim8rfsk@cox.net>
    wrote:

    Almost exactly 2 years ago Cox did some maintenance outside and when they
    put things back together, they put the wrong limiter clip in my external >cable box. I had for years had the 500 Mbps service and they knocked me
    back to my previous service of 300 Mbps.

    I spoke to many tech-support people in the days since. The first one
    insisted I had to restart my computer. I told her I didn’t have a computer. >I was on an iPhone. She told me I had to restart the iPhone. I told her
    that the text chat we were on would be gone. She insisted my phone would
    come back on and the chat would light right up. I knew she was crazy, but I >also realized there was no further point in talking to her. I did make her >give me case numbers and references so I could start over with the new guy, >which she did.

    I had one try to get me to do that once. I refused since I knew it
    would disconnect us and got her to pass me off to someone with some
    common sense.

    So after I restarted the phone and she was gone, I got a new guy and gave
    him the numbers and he refused to do anything with it and we started over.
    He said I had to buy all new equipment and that you have to replace your >equipment every two years And that you have to buy it from the Cox store.
    May I point out that he was lying? Anyway, he refused to send anybody out >without charging me $75 even though I pay $10 a month to get free service >calls.

    Sounds like he was either an idiot or was trying to get you to spend
    money you don't need. Unless you were using your own personal modem
    there's nothing to buy as whether the company provides free equipment
    or has you pay a monthly free, the equipment as in the cable modem is
    owned by the cable company. So there's nothing for you to buy. Also
    where did he come up with this two year term? Is this all some way to
    paid his bonus (assuming the purchase would get assigned to him) ?

    Since I was getting the 300 speed, I tried to get him to knock me back down >to the 300 service I was actually getting and he adamantly refused and said >you can’t ever go back.

    That's clearly not right. So long as it is a service level they are
    offering everyone it's available to everyone, even you.

    So I didn’t bother any further with him. And in the weeks and months that >followed called several times and always hit the barrier where they won’t >send somebody out without charging me $75. A couple of times they got them
    to agree to a free service call but then I immediately got an email that
    said if I didn’t cancel it, they were going to charge me $75.

    I guess Cox is truly hurting for money. I had Comcast try to pull that
    on me but when I insisted they dropped the fee as the problems I
    reported where always outside the home (even though they always
    insisted on starting inside.)

    Two weeks ago, they knocked out my service on and off for most of a week
    for planned maintenance.

    Every night between 4 and 6 AM the DVR reboots to get a program guide
    update. This is supposed to take five minutes. Since the recent planned >maintenance, the reboot time takes longer every day. Right now I am at >something like 17 hours of it trying to reboot and trying software reboots >that simply tell you to unplug it instead and I’ve unplugged it a dozen >times ranging from a few seconds to a half an hour. The poor thing just
    keeps trying to reboot.

    That should be more than enough to get a free service call to check
    out and likely replace the DVR. Though that would also likely mean
    losing what ever you have recorded on there unless it is in the cloud.

    So barring a miracle, it’s dead, Jim.

    Since Cox dumped our email service a year or two ago the brand really >doesn’t matter so much to me anymore. And every possible avenue results in >me losing the DVR and all the accrued programming so I see no point in >keeping the service. Also, with a new DVR, they insist on sending out an >installer who will spend four hours measuring the signal in every room in
    my house and putting in repeaters. Said repeaters require you not only >renting them monthly but paying a usage fee as well. This ain’t gonna >happen.

    They may want to do that but it should only matter if you want the
    repeaters. I've only ever used the single TV in my living room so
    spending time testing out any other room would be a waste of mine and
    their time as I'm not putting their equipment in any other room.

    So my first step will be to try T-Mobile wireless home Internet. I’ve >heard nothing but good things about it (until quite recently where people
    are saying that it’s going out and slowing down a lot as they get >overextended for the current infrastructure).

    Yeah, I've heard about the slowdowns that can happen during prime time
    hours but otherwise it seems like a decent offering.

    My big problem is figuring
    out all the stuff I have connected and what my new set up will be. The >T-Mobile modem needs to be in a window and things connected to it
    wirelessly. So I guess I need a router that will connect to it wirelessly >that I can plug the hardwire equipment into and hopefully let the Wi-Fi >equipment go straight to the modem.

    Buckle your seatbelts, it’s going to be a bumpy ride.

    Best of luck to you.

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  • From super70s@21:1/5 to All on Wed Jul 23 03:51:22 2025
    On 2025-07-23 04:09:44 +0000, anim8rfsk said:

    Since Cox dumped our email service a year or two ago the brand really doesn’t matter so much to me anymore. And every possible avenue results in me losing the DVR and all the accrued programming so I see no point in keeping the service.

    I could never get my head around DVR's and recording a lot of TV
    programming that you may or may not be interested in viewing at some
    point in the distant future. I would guess the majority of people who
    do that never get around to watching most of what's recorded.

    My cable provider offers a "CatchUp TV" feature that they say saves all
    the channels they offer (unless a channel doesn't allow it for whatever contractual reasons) on their end for 4 or 5 days. I use that quite a
    bit so I can watch TV on my schedule when it's more convenient, but
    rarely for something more than two days old (kind of a PITB to scroll
    back farther than that anyway).

    Almost exactly 2 years ago Cox did some maintenance outside and when they
    put things back together, they put the wrong limiter clip in my external cable box. I had for years had the 500 Mbps service and they knocked me
    back to my previous service of 300 Mbps.

    Ever since my provider upgraded me (forcefully, I was one of the last
    holdouts) to fiber about a year ago I've been coasting along at
    635/download, 436/upload.

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  • From Rhino@21:1/5 to All on Wed Jul 23 11:47:11 2025
    On 2025-07-23 12:09 AM, anim8rfsk wrote:
    Almost exactly 2 years ago Cox did some maintenance outside and when they
    put things back together, they put the wrong limiter clip in my external cable box. I had for years had the 500 Mbps service and they knocked me
    back to my previous service of 300 Mbps.

    I spoke to many tech-support people in the days since. The first one
    insisted I had to restart my computer. I told her I didn’t have a computer. I was on an iPhone. She told me I had to restart the iPhone. I told her
    that the text chat we were on would be gone. She insisted my phone would
    come back on and the chat would light right up. I knew she was crazy, but I also realized there was no further point in talking to her. I did make her give me case numbers and references so I could start over with the new guy, which she did.

    So after I restarted the phone and she was gone, I got a new guy and gave
    him the numbers and he refused to do anything with it and we started over.
    He said I had to buy all new equipment and that you have to replace your equipment every two years And that you have to buy it from the Cox store.
    May I point out that he was lying? Anyway, he refused to send anybody out without charging me $75 even though I pay $10 a month to get free service calls.

    Since I was getting the 300 speed, I tried to get him to knock me back down to the 300 service I was actually getting and he adamantly refused and said you can’t ever go back.

    So I didn’t bother any further with him. And in the weeks and months that followed called several times and always hit the barrier where they won’t send somebody out without charging me $75. A couple of times they got them
    to agree to a free service call but then I immediately got an email that
    said if I didn’t cancel it, they were going to charge me $75.

    Two weeks ago, they knocked out my service on and off for most of a week
    for planned maintenance.

    Every night between 4 and 6 AM the DVR reboots to get a program guide
    update. This is supposed to take five minutes. Since the recent planned maintenance, the reboot time takes longer every day. Right now I am at something like 17 hours of it trying to reboot and trying software reboots that simply tell you to unplug it instead and I’ve unplugged it a dozen times ranging from a few seconds to a half an hour. The poor thing just
    keeps trying to reboot.

    So barring a miracle, it’s dead, Jim.

    Since Cox dumped our email service a year or two ago the brand really doesn’t matter so much to me anymore. And every possible avenue results in me losing the DVR and all the accrued programming so I see no point in keeping the service. Also, with a new DVR, they insist on sending out an installer who will spend four hours measuring the signal in every room in
    my house and putting in repeaters. Said repeaters require you not only renting them monthly but paying a usage fee as well. This ain’t gonna happen.

    So my first step will be to try T-Mobile wireless home Internet. I’ve heard nothing but good things about it (until quite recently where people
    are saying that it’s going out and slowing down a lot as they get overextended for the current infrastructure). My big problem is figuring
    out all the stuff I have connected and what my new set up will be. The T-Mobile modem needs to be in a window and things connected to it
    wirelessly. So I guess I need a router that will connect to it wirelessly that I can plug the hardwire equipment into and hopefully let the Wi-Fi equipment go straight to the modem.

    Buckle your seatbelts, it’s going to be a bumpy ride.


    That is some seriously awful customer service! Is StarLink an option for
    you? I know it gives internet access so presumably it also makes
    streaming available but I'm not sure if that would give you the channels
    you want.


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  • From BTR1701@21:1/5 to anim8rfsk@cox.net on Wed Jul 23 17:57:59 2025
    On Jul 22, 2025 at 9:09:44 PM PDT, "anim8rfsk" <anim8rfsk@cox.net> wrote:

    So after I restarted the phone and she was gone, I got a new guy and gave
    him the numbers and he refused to do anything with it and we started over.
    He said I had to buy all new equipment and that you have to replace your equipment every two years And that you have to buy it from the Cox store.
    May I point out that he was lying? Anyway, he refused to send anybody out without charging me $75 even though I pay $10 a month to get free service calls.

    Ask for the money back you've paid for the free service calls-- since that obviously doesn't actually get you free service calls-- and use that to pay
    for the tech to come out.

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  • From anim8rfsk@21:1/5 to super70s@super70s.invalid on Wed Jul 23 10:45:17 2025
    super70s <super70s@super70s.invalid> wrote:
    On 2025-07-23 04:09:44 +0000, anim8rfsk said:

    Since Cox dumped our email service a year or two ago the brand really
    doesn’t matter so much to me anymore. And every possible avenue results in >> me losing the DVR and all the accrued programming so I see no point in
    keeping the service.

    I could never get my head around DVR's and recording a lot of TV
    programming that you may or may not be interested in viewing at some
    point in the distant future. I would guess the majority of people who
    do that never get around to watching most of what's recorded.


    I’m still working on the backlog from the months I spent in the hospital
    last year.


    My cable provider offers a "CatchUp TV" feature that they say saves all
    the channels they offer (unless a channel doesn't allow it for whatever contractual reasons) on their end for 4 or 5 days. I use that quite a
    bit so I can watch TV on my schedule when it's more convenient, but
    rarely for something more than two days old (kind of a PITB to scroll
    back farther than that anyway).

    Interesting. Nothing like that here.

    Decades ago in London, you could get a 30 day DVR that recorded literally everything for the last 30 days (it helped that the BBC only had a couple
    of channels). But you had to buy the hardware and it was thousands of
    dollars so it turned out to be very popular.



    Almost exactly 2 years ago Cox did some maintenance outside and when they
    put things back together, they put the wrong limiter clip in my external
    cable box. I had for years had the 500 Mbps service and they knocked me
    back to my previous service of 300 Mbps.

    Ever since my provider upgraded me (forcefully, I was one of the last holdouts) to fiber about a year ago I've been coasting along at
    635/download, 436/upload.

    I was getting 500/10 (Cox limits your upload for the stated purpose of
    making sure you don’t host porn on their system). When they put the wrong clip on, it took me down to <299 (it never ever ever crosses the 300 mark).



    They ran the freaking fiber through my front yard (illegally as there’s a narrow band of easement that follows the sidewalk, but they cut corners literally by going diagonally through my yard) and yet in the years since
    they did that they never offered me the service.



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  • From anim8rfsk@21:1/5 to atropos@mac.com on Wed Jul 23 16:18:56 2025
    BTR1701 <atropos@mac.com> wrote:
    On Jul 22, 2025 at 9:09:44 PM PDT, "anim8rfsk" <anim8rfsk@cox.net> wrote:

    So after I restarted the phone and she was gone, I got a new guy and gave
    him the numbers and he refused to do anything with it and we started over. >> He said I had to buy all new equipment and that you have to replace your
    equipment every two years And that you have to buy it from the Cox store.
    May I point out that he was lying? Anyway, he refused to send anybody out
    without charging me $75 even though I pay $10 a month to get free service
    calls.

    Ask for the money back you've paid for the free service calls-- since that obviously doesn't actually get you free service calls-- and use that to pay for the tech to come out.

    I’ve canceled all the service calls when they tried to get me to accept the $75 fee.



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  • From Your Name@21:1/5 to All on Thu Jul 24 12:02:52 2025
    On 2025-07-23 08:51:22 +0000, super70s said:

    On 2025-07-23 04:09:44 +0000, anim8rfsk said:

    Since Cox dumped our email service a year or two ago the brand really
    doesn’t matter so much to me anymore. And every possible avenue results in >> me losing the DVR and all the accrued programming so I see no point in
    keeping the service.

    I could never get my head around DVR's and recording a lot of TV
    programming that you may or may not be interested in viewing at some
    point in the distant future. I would guess the majority of people who
    do that never get around to watching most of what's recorded.

    We use the Sky TV box via satelitte dish to record shows to watch them
    when we want to, using the series link to record each new episode
    (other than when Sky stuffs up their data entry!). It also means we can fast-forward through the advert breaks. We watch every show recorded
    and then delete them ... even if some new shows are only watched for
    the first 5-10 minutes before being deleted as rubbish. It is very rare
    for the box's capacity to ever get below 20% free space, usually it is
    in the 70%-80% range.

    We only ever use internet streaming (via the iPad or computer) in the
    extremely rare times the recorder failed to record something or missed
    the ending.




    My cable provider offers a "CatchUp TV" feature that they say saves all
    the channels they offer (unless a channel doesn't allow it for whatever contractual reasons) on their end for 4 or 5 days. I use that quite a
    bit so I can watch TV on my schedule when it's more convenient, but
    rarely for something more than two days old (kind of a PITB to scroll
    back farther than that anyway).

    Almost exactly 2 years ago Cox did some maintenance outside and when they
    put things back together, they put the wrong limiter clip in my external
    cable box. I had for years had the 500 Mbps service and they knocked me
    back to my previous service of 300 Mbps.

    Ever since my provider upgraded me (forcefully, I was one of the last holdouts) to fiber about a year ago I've been coasting along at
    635/download, 436/upload.

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