• How (whether) to proceed.

    From Paul Carmichael@21:1/5 to All on Mon May 3 09:44:02 2021
    Hello folks.

    I'm a newbie at classical guitar.

    Having said that, I've been on the Allen Matthews system for a year.

    I've also dabbled in the Parkening method and followed a bit of the
    Werner stuff.

    I feel I've learned quite a bit of theory and find my way around with
    scales. I practise arpeggios every day and go through what chords I know.

    Problem is, if I don't watch my fingers I keep hitting the wrong strings.
    I don't want to play with my head cranked over the instrument and I'd
    like to be able to follow written score (aka sight read). I can follow it
    now, saying the notes and I even know where they are, but my fingers
    don't. Fingers aren't too bad on the first 3 strings, but do sometimes
    touch the adjacent strings. The right thumb is a total disaster. I was
    trying to play a simple tune with a bass line and just kept playing the
    wrong string. If I leave out the bass I can more or less get by with the melody.

    I started with the guitar as a way of relaxing, but I'm now more stressed
    out than ever. I've come very close to smashing the guitar against the
    wall.

    The obvious answer would seem to be get lessons. But where I live,
    flamenco is the *only* style (other than strumming along to christmas
    carols).

    Oh, and here it's all soflège, which I have no desire to learn.

    I am seriously considering giving up. What's the point of knowing theory, scales and arpeggios if I can't play a tune?

    I know you've probably all heard this sob story a million times, but
    seriously, can one train ones hands without one on one tuition?

    I've tried blaming the guitar, but I'm sure it's ok really.

    I am pretty sure that having no nails is making things a tiny bit more difficult, but that's as far as it goes.

    Opinions?

    --
    Paul.

    https://paulc.es/elpatio

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  • From Ken Blake@21:1/5 to Paul Carmichael on Mon May 3 08:38:39 2021
    On 5/3/2021 2:44 AM, Paul Carmichael wrote:
    Hello folks.

    I'm a newbie at classical guitar.

    Having said that, I've been on the Allen Matthews system for a year.

    I've also dabbled in the Parkening method and followed a bit of the
    Werner stuff.

    I feel I've learned quite a bit of theory and find my way around with
    scales. I practise arpeggios every day and go through what chords I know.

    Problem is, if I don't watch my fingers I keep hitting the wrong strings.
    I don't want to play with my head cranked over the instrument and I'd
    like to be able to follow written score (aka sight read). I can follow it now, saying the notes and I even know where they are, but my fingers
    don't. Fingers aren't too bad on the first 3 strings, but do sometimes
    touch the adjacent strings. The right thumb is a total disaster. I was
    trying to play a simple tune with a bass line and just kept playing the
    wrong string. If I leave out the bass I can more or less get by with the melody.

    I started with the guitar as a way of relaxing, but I'm now more stressed
    out than ever. I've come very close to smashing the guitar against the
    wall.

    The obvious answer would seem to be get lessons. But where I live,
    flamenco is the *only* style (other than strumming along to christmas carols).

    Oh, and here it's all soflège, which I have no desire to learn.

    I am seriously considering giving up. What's the point of knowing theory, scales and arpeggios if I can't play a tune?

    I know you've probably all heard this sob story a million times, but seriously, can one train ones hands without one on one tuition?

    I've tried blaming the guitar, but I'm sure it's ok really.

    I am pretty sure that having no nails is making things a tiny bit more difficult, but that's as far as it goes.

    Opinions?


    I have no experience with lessons via Zoom or Skype, but that's
    something you might want to try.


    --
    Ken

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  • From Steven Bornfeld@21:1/5 to Paul Carmichael on Mon May 3 12:53:59 2021
    On 5/3/2021 5:44 AM, Paul Carmichael wrote:
    Hello folks.

    I'm a newbie at classical guitar.

    Having said that, I've been on the Allen Matthews system for a year.

    I've also dabbled in the Parkening method and followed a bit of the
    Werner stuff.

    I feel I've learned quite a bit of theory and find my way around with
    scales. I practise arpeggios every day and go through what chords I know.

    Problem is, if I don't watch my fingers I keep hitting the wrong strings.
    I don't want to play with my head cranked over the instrument and I'd
    like to be able to follow written score (aka sight read). I can follow it now, saying the notes and I even know where they are, but my fingers
    don't. Fingers aren't too bad on the first 3 strings, but do sometimes
    touch the adjacent strings. The right thumb is a total disaster. I was
    trying to play a simple tune with a bass line and just kept playing the
    wrong string. If I leave out the bass I can more or less get by with the melody.

    I started with the guitar as a way of relaxing, but I'm now more stressed
    out than ever. I've come very close to smashing the guitar against the
    wall.

    The obvious answer would seem to be get lessons. But where I live,
    flamenco is the *only* style (other than strumming along to christmas carols).

    Oh, and here it's all soflège, which I have no desire to learn.

    I am seriously considering giving up. What's the point of knowing theory, scales and arpeggios if I can't play a tune?

    I know you've probably all heard this sob story a million times, but seriously, can one train ones hands without one on one tuition?

    I've tried blaming the guitar, but I'm sure it's ok really.

    I am pretty sure that having no nails is making things a tiny bit more difficult, but that's as far as it goes.

    Opinions?



    Well, I suppose not being able to watch your left or right hands would
    be one reason to memorize scores (we've been discussing that lately).
    It DOES get easier to internalize positions with time--at least I've
    found it to be so (and the right hand position has been considerably
    easier than the left). But that's over a period of years. It really
    shouldn't be something to beat yourself up over.
    In any case if you're a beginner, you should be starting with pieces in
    the lower positions. Once you've gotten the hang of that, introduce
    pieces that use more of the fingerboard.

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  • From Matt Faunce@21:1/5 to Paul Carmichael on Mon May 3 18:07:13 2021
    Paul Carmichael <wibbleypants@gmail.com> wrote:
    Hello folks.

    I'm a newbie at classical guitar.

    Having said that, I've been on the Allen Matthews system for a year.

    I've also dabbled in the Parkening method and followed a bit of the
    Werner stuff.

    I feel I've learned quite a bit of theory and find my way around with
    scales. I practise arpeggios every day and go through what chords I know.

    Problem is, if I don't watch my fingers I keep hitting the wrong strings.
    I don't want to play with my head cranked over the instrument and I'd
    like to be able to follow written score (aka sight read). I can follow it now, saying the notes and I even know where they are, but my fingers
    don't. Fingers aren't too bad on the first 3 strings, but do sometimes
    touch the adjacent strings. The right thumb is a total disaster. I was
    trying to play a simple tune with a bass line and just kept playing the
    wrong string. If I leave out the bass I can more or less get by with the melody.

    I started with the guitar as a way of relaxing, but I'm now more stressed
    out than ever. I've come very close to smashing the guitar against the
    wall.

    The obvious answer would seem to be get lessons. But where I live,
    flamenco is the *only* style (other than strumming along to christmas carols).

    Oh, and here it's all soflège, which I have no desire to learn.

    I am seriously considering giving up. What's the point of knowing theory, scales and arpeggios if I can't play a tune?

    I know you've probably all heard this sob story a million times, but seriously, can one train ones hands without one on one tuition?

    I've tried blaming the guitar, but I'm sure it's ok really.

    I am pretty sure that having no nails is making things a tiny bit more difficult, but that's as far as it goes.

    Opinions?


    It’s hard to offer help without knowing, more specifically, where you are
    in your progress. But, based on what you said, my best guess is that you
    should play a lot more of the simple stuff: perhaps, for you, that’s simple melodies on the first three strings, with only open-string bass notes that
    are timed to fall in between the treble notes. I’ve written a bunch of beginner pieces that do just that.

    Flamenco lessons and/or Christmas-Carol strumming lessons incorporate
    solfège?

    --
    Matt

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  • From Matt Faunce@21:1/5 to Paul Carmichael on Mon May 3 19:07:38 2021
    Paul Carmichael <wibbleypants@gmail.com> wrote:
    El Mon, 03 May 2021 18:07:13 +0000, Matt Faunce escribió:

    Paul Carmichael <wibbleypants@gmail.com> wrote:
    Hello folks.

    I'm a newbie at classical guitar.

    Having said that, I've been on the Allen Matthews system for a year.

    I've also dabbled in the Parkening method and followed a bit of the
    Werner stuff.

    I feel I've learned quite a bit of theory and find my way around with
    scales. I practise arpeggios every day and go through what chords I
    know.

    Problem is, if I don't watch my fingers I keep hitting the wrong
    strings.
    I don't want to play with my head cranked over the instrument and I'd
    like to be able to follow written score (aka sight read). I can follow
    it now, saying the notes and I even know where they are, but my fingers
    don't. Fingers aren't too bad on the first 3 strings, but do sometimes
    touch the adjacent strings. The right thumb is a total disaster. I was
    trying to play a simple tune with a bass line and just kept playing the
    wrong string. If I leave out the bass I can more or less get by with
    the melody.

    I started with the guitar as a way of relaxing, but I'm now more
    stressed out than ever. I've come very close to smashing the guitar
    against the wall.

    The obvious answer would seem to be get lessons. But where I live,
    flamenco is the *only* style (other than strumming along to christmas
    carols).

    Oh, and here it's all soflège, which I have no desire to learn.

    I am seriously considering giving up. What's the point of knowing
    theory,
    scales and arpeggios if I can't play a tune?

    I know you've probably all heard this sob story a million times, but
    seriously, can one train ones hands without one on one tuition?

    I've tried blaming the guitar, but I'm sure it's ok really.

    I am pretty sure that having no nails is making things a tiny bit more
    difficult, but that's as far as it goes.

    Opinions?


    It’s hard to offer help without knowing, more specifically, where you
    are in your progress. But, based on what you said, my best guess is that
    you should play a lot more of the simple stuff: perhaps, for you, that’s >> simple melodies on the first three strings, with only open-string bass
    notes that are timed to fall in between the treble notes. I’ve written a >> bunch of beginner pieces that do just that.

    Flamenco lessons and/or Christmas-Carol strumming lessons incorporate
    solfège?

    No, but what music they do teach is all do re mi. Actually, the christmas carol stuff uses chords that are named do re mi. So yes.





    OK. Just so you know, solfège is a system for training the ear via the
    singing of solfège syllables. If they make you sing, “Dashing through the snow” as “sol mi re do sol” then that’s solfège.

    --
    Matt

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  • From Paul Carmichael@21:1/5 to All on Mon May 3 18:22:03 2021
    El Mon, 03 May 2021 18:07:13 +0000, Matt Faunce escribió:

    Paul Carmichael <wibbleypants@gmail.com> wrote:
    Hello folks.

    I'm a newbie at classical guitar.

    Having said that, I've been on the Allen Matthews system for a year.

    I've also dabbled in the Parkening method and followed a bit of the
    Werner stuff.

    I feel I've learned quite a bit of theory and find my way around with
    scales. I practise arpeggios every day and go through what chords I
    know.

    Problem is, if I don't watch my fingers I keep hitting the wrong
    strings.
    I don't want to play with my head cranked over the instrument and I'd
    like to be able to follow written score (aka sight read). I can follow
    it now, saying the notes and I even know where they are, but my fingers
    don't. Fingers aren't too bad on the first 3 strings, but do sometimes
    touch the adjacent strings. The right thumb is a total disaster. I was
    trying to play a simple tune with a bass line and just kept playing the
    wrong string. If I leave out the bass I can more or less get by with
    the melody.

    I started with the guitar as a way of relaxing, but I'm now more
    stressed out than ever. I've come very close to smashing the guitar
    against the wall.

    The obvious answer would seem to be get lessons. But where I live,
    flamenco is the *only* style (other than strumming along to christmas
    carols).

    Oh, and here it's all soflège, which I have no desire to learn.

    I am seriously considering giving up. What's the point of knowing
    theory,
    scales and arpeggios if I can't play a tune?

    I know you've probably all heard this sob story a million times, but
    seriously, can one train ones hands without one on one tuition?

    I've tried blaming the guitar, but I'm sure it's ok really.

    I am pretty sure that having no nails is making things a tiny bit more
    difficult, but that's as far as it goes.

    Opinions?


    It’s hard to offer help without knowing, more specifically, where you
    are in your progress. But, based on what you said, my best guess is that
    you should play a lot more of the simple stuff: perhaps, for you, that’s simple melodies on the first three strings, with only open-string bass
    notes that are timed to fall in between the treble notes. I’ve written a bunch of beginner pieces that do just that.

    Flamenco lessons and/or Christmas-Carol strumming lessons incorporate solfège?

    No, but what music they do teach is all do re mi. Actually, the christmas
    carol stuff uses chords that are named do re mi. So yes.



    --
    Paul.

    https://paulc.es/elpatio

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  • From JPD@21:1/5 to All on Mon May 3 15:20:05 2021
    On Monday, May 3, 2021 at 2:44:05 AM UTC-7, Paul Carmichael wrote:
    can one train ones hands without one on one tuition?

    No.

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  • From Paul Carmichael@21:1/5 to All on Tue May 4 07:12:39 2021
    El Mon, 03 May 2021 19:07:38 +0000, Matt Faunce escribió:

    OK. Just so you know, solfège is a system for training the ear via the singing of solfège syllables. If they make you sing, “Dashing through
    the snow” as “sol mi re do sol” then that’s solfège.


    Thanks. But you know what I mean. I've read about all that stuff, but
    here, they quite simply use do re mi instead of C D E. I suppose the
    reason is historical. An E minor chord here is a "mi menor".


    --
    Paul.

    https://paulc.es/elpatio

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  • From Paul Carmichael@21:1/5 to All on Tue May 4 10:52:49 2021
    El Mon, 03 May 2021 09:44:02 +0000, Paul Carmichael escribió:

    <snip I'm crap at guitar>

    I've tried blaming the guitar, but I'm sure it's ok really.

    And I now know that you shouldn't file the nut unless you know what
    you're doing.

    New nut ordered.


    --
    Paul.

    https://paulc.es/elpatio

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  • From Gary Dufresne@21:1/5 to All on Tue May 4 16:13:07 2021
    Hi Paul,

    This reminds of the time I took up classical guitar. Sort of pre-mid-life crisis (I have since advanced to straight up mid-life crisis).

    I got a "teacher" but of course did plenty of self-directed study and research.

    After some months I discovered that I had developed a bad habit of grabbing the string with my nail (flexor action) and then plucking the string to sound it (extensor action). According to the Internet, CGists sound strings with flexors only (stroking
    or hammering action) and then return the finger to playing position using basically extensors only.

    I asked my teacher about this and he was like, "Well....DUH....yes that's how it works" although it got me to wondering why he never said anything to me about it. Then again, in his defense, he also told me to "not play" 2 measures of a Sor study that I
    didn't understand and didn't quite sound right to me. No explanation or assistance, just "don't play those 2 measures").

    So, teachers aren't always the answer. I suggest you find some simple TAB or sheet music of something you really want to play and have at it. All theory and no play makes us dull. Theory isn't really that important anyway, in my humble opinion!

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  • From Ken Blake@21:1/5 to Gary Dufresne on Tue May 4 16:34:38 2021
    On 5/4/2021 4:13 PM, Gary Dufresne wrote:
    Hi Paul,

    This reminds of the time I took up classical guitar. Sort of pre-mid-life crisis (I have since advanced to straight up mid-life crisis).

    I got a "teacher" but of course did plenty of self-directed study and research.

    After some months I discovered that I had developed a bad habit of grabbing the string with my nail (flexor action) and then plucking the string to sound it (extensor action). According to the Internet, CGists sound strings with flexors only (stroking
    or hammering action) and then return the finger to playing position using basically extensors only.

    I asked my teacher about this and he was like, "Well....DUH....yes that's how it works" although it got me to wondering why he never said anything to me about it. Then again, in his defense, he also told me to "not play" 2 measures of a Sor study that
    I didn't understand and didn't quite sound right to me. No explanation or assistance, just "don't play those 2 measures").

    So, teachers aren't always the answer. I suggest you find some simple TAB or sheet music of something you really want to play and have at it. All theory and no play makes us dull. Theory isn't really that important anyway, in my humble opinion!




    There are good teachers, not so good teachers, and terrible teachers. In
    my view, teachers *are* important, but it's important to select a good one.

    I've learned a lot by myself, but I also had good teachers who helped me unlearn some of the bad habits I learned by myself.


    --
    Ken

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  • From Paul Carmichael@21:1/5 to All on Wed May 5 09:58:53 2021
    El Tue, 04 May 2021 16:34:38 -0700, Ken Blake escribió:

    On 5/4/2021 4:13 PM, Gary Dufresne wrote:
    Hi Paul,

    This reminds of the time I took up classical guitar. Sort of
    pre-mid-life crisis (I have since advanced to straight up mid-life
    crisis).

    I got a "teacher" but of course did plenty of self-directed study and
    research.

    After some months I discovered that I had developed a bad habit of
    grabbing the string with my nail (flexor action) and then plucking the
    string to sound it (extensor action). According to the Internet,
    CGists sound strings with flexors only (stroking or hammering action)
    and then return the finger to playing position using basically
    extensors only.

    I asked my teacher about this and he was like, "Well....DUH....yes
    that's how it works" although it got me to wondering why he never said
    anything to me about it. Then again, in his defense, he also told me
    to "not play" 2 measures of a Sor study that I didn't understand and
    didn't quite sound right to me. No explanation or assistance, just
    "don't play those 2 measures").

    So, teachers aren't always the answer. I suggest you find some simple
    TAB or sheet music of something you really want to play and have at it.
    All theory and no play makes us dull. Theory isn't really that
    important anyway, in my humble opinion!


    I *like* theory :-) I'm a technical person. I've spent many hundreds of
    hours buried deep in machine code. Old school hacker.



    There are good teachers, not so good teachers, and terrible teachers. In
    my view, teachers *are* important, but it's important to select a good
    one.

    I've learned a lot by myself, but I also had good teachers who helped me unlearn some of the bad habits I learned by myself.

    I'm pretty sure that Allen Matthews and his team are good teachers, but I
    just keep making the same mistakes and found it impossible to move on
    (apart from the fact that I am now broke and can't afford classes of any
    sort).


    The backs of my fingers keep touching strings and my right thumb plays
    random strings. Time to play the A string, but I know that my thumb will
    go for either the E or the D for sure. Or maybe I'll get the A but the
    back of my thumbnail will hit the E. So frustrating.


    --
    Paul.

    https://paulc.es/elpatio

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  • From Gary Dufresne@21:1/5 to All on Wed May 5 09:28:45 2021

    I *like* theory :-) I'm a technical person. I've spent many hundreds of hours buried deep in machine code. Old school hacker.


    Hi Paul, I appreciate your reply here. I totally get your technical persona! I guess my point was to reinforce the thinking behind your earlier comment, "What's the point of knowing theory, scales and arpeggios if I can't play a tune?"

    The point in that case would be to write music for others to play!

    Beyond that, I'll share one more story from my transition from self-taught to qualified-teacher-taught.

    After years of self-study and one super-crap teacher, I assumed I was sitting correctly and holding the guitar correctly. It took a qualified teacher about one minute of observing me to start in on how to sit and how to hold a guitar. It was
    embarrassing and encouraging at the same time!

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