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    From Batman The real one@21:1/5 to All on Thu Sep 15 04:34:04 2022
    Victim is a 58 year old female living in rural Alberta-

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Traumatic_bonding
    0-10 yr

    Traumatic life or death childhood event, exasperated by an alcoholic father and submissive mother
    Sexual abuse - father, uncle, cousins. Unwanted touches by old men

    10-15

    Due to dysfunctional family values, family moves 4000 mi away - to start over Fears of abandonment, yearning for my grandmother, aunts cousins
    Mother -father divorced
    Mother - remarries
    Father runs away to the Yukon
    Bought a horse
    Move from NN to SP
    Board horse at Don Cooks near SP
    Hate SP, miss my friends from NN and Ont, family

    15-24

    Began to date my husband
    Became pregnant at 16
    Married by 17
    Three children
    Husband works away from home
    All family responsibilities on my shoulders
    All finances on his shoulders

    24-35

    Busy raising family
    Enjoying life
    But still unhappy

    35-45

    First affair - with a man I met coaching ball
    A few one night stands
    second affair - a man I met at the rink



    45-58
    Affair -broke off
    Left to Montreal
    Threatening while I was there
    Family threatened
    Usenet- more anons
    More calls to police
    More calls to 6137997002
    More anger than I have ever felt

    Less time for family
    Less time to feel safe
    Always on high alert
    No one to talk
    to about it

    But

    Bob Dylan









    https://thenextweb.com/news/why-our-laws-cant-protect-me-from-my-digital-stalker

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