• A relationship with your first cousin

    From LionelEdwards@21:1/5 to All on Mon Dec 9 23:11:55 2024
    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

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  • From Roger Hayter@21:1/5 to All on Tue Dec 10 01:08:09 2024
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many people in this country are not apparently aware that we are not part of America.


    --

    Roger Hayter

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  • From Roland Perry@21:1/5 to All on Tue Dec 10 07:22:22 2024
    In message <9288960324.590aca1c@uninhabited.net>, at 01:08:09 on Tue, 10
    Dec 2024, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> remarked:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many people in this >country are not apparently aware that we are not part of America.

    Also, the expression "relationship" is very vague. I have a friendly relationship with one of my colleagues from 40yrs ago, saw her last
    week[1]. We had a chat and a cup of tea, and then went our separate
    ways. Would that be illegal in parts of the USA?

    [1] For the first time since July, and before that around six years ago,
    and, before that about 35yrs ago.
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    Roland Perry

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  • From Roland Perry@21:1/5 to All on Tue Dec 10 07:18:13 2024
    In message <ce585bbcfa7e85ab467e6a83d8fcfde3@www.novabbs.com>, at
    23:11:55 on Mon, 9 Dec 2024, LionelEdwards <dougstaples@gmx.com>
    remarked:
    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    Please elucidate on this - is there a proposal to, or was the question rhetorical.
    --
    Roland Perry

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  • From JNugent@21:1/5 to LionelEdwards on Mon Dec 9 23:54:44 2024
    On 09/12/2024 11:11 pm, LionelEdwards wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    "Incestuous" as used there is a legal term. What you describe wasn't
    illegal because there wasn't (and still isn't) a law against it. Make
    provision in law for a prohibition on sexual relationshiops between
    first cousins and it *will* be incestuous.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It was explained today that there are heightened concerns about
    in-breeding effects. Presumably, this arises out of the results of
    research which were not available to our Victorian ancestors.

    Not, though, that very much was said about the research or the
    conclusions drawn therefrom.

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  • From Jeff Gaines@21:1/5 to LionelEdwards on Tue Dec 10 08:30:16 2024
    On 09/12/2024 in message
    <ce585bbcfa7e85ab467e6a83d8fcfde3@www.novabbs.com> LionelEdwards wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It's only a suggestion by Richard Holden.

    I have four double cousins, my father's brother married my mother's
    sister. Clinically that makes us equivalent to half sibling so definitely ginger hair/webbed feet territory!

    --
    Jeff Gaines Dorset UK
    Most people have heard of Karl Marx the philosopher but few know of his
    sister Onya the Olympic runner.
    Her name is still mentioned at the start of every race.

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  • From Roger Hayter@21:1/5 to JNugent on Tue Dec 10 12:13:35 2024
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:54:44 GMT, "JNugent" <JNugent73@mail.com> wrote:

    On 09/12/2024 11:11 pm, LionelEdwards wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    "Incestuous" as used there is a legal term. What you describe wasn't
    illegal because there wasn't (and still isn't) a law against it. Make provision in law for a prohibition on sexual relationshiops between
    first cousins and it *will* be incestuous.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It was explained today that there are heightened concerns about
    in-breeding effects. Presumably, this arises out of the results of
    research which were not available to our Victorian ancestors.

    Not, though, that very much was said about the research or the
    conclusions drawn therefrom.

    Sadly, it seems that the moral panic is more about non-white people doing it than anything else.

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    Roger Hayter

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  • From Max Demian@21:1/5 to LionelEdwards on Tue Dec 10 11:49:10 2024
    On 09/12/2024 23:11, LionelEdwards wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    People like making things illegal.

    MP Richard Holden (who is proposing the law change) comes up with a
    mishmash of ideas in much the same way as lead to increasing the minimum
    age of marriage to 18.

    Cousin marriages "reinforce negative structures and control women."

    "People already think it is illegal and then are surprised when you
    mention it isn’t."

    'He said cousin marriages can be “cultural rather than religious” in “some of the communities where it is more prevalent”, adding: “Marriage and relationships should be about individual choice in modern Britain,
    it shouldn’t be about anything else.”'

    So it's all a dig at those pesky Asians.

    "Building on my previous work to ban hymenoplasty and so-called
    virginity testing in the last Parliament, I will urge the Government to reconsider the legality of first-cousin marriage in the UK."

    Pesky Asians again. (I don't think Hindus allow it. I don't know about Muslims.)

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    Max Demian

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  • From kat@21:1/5 to Roger Hayter on Tue Dec 10 13:12:33 2024
    On 10/12/2024 12:13, Roger Hayter wrote:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:54:44 GMT, "JNugent" <JNugent73@mail.com> wrote:

    On 09/12/2024 11:11 pm, LionelEdwards wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    "Incestuous" as used there is a legal term. What you describe wasn't
    illegal because there wasn't (and still isn't) a law against it. Make
    provision in law for a prohibition on sexual relationshiops between
    first cousins and it *will* be incestuous.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It was explained today that there are heightened concerns about
    in-breeding effects. Presumably, this arises out of the results of
    research which were not available to our Victorian ancestors.

    Not, though, that very much was said about the research or the
    conclusions drawn therefrom.

    Sadly, it seems that the moral panic is more about non-white people doing it than anything else.


    Not really, it's a genetic risk. It just happens that within the Asian community it happens more often for various reasons. This report is worth a read. It is about a BBC3 progam shown some years ago called "Should I Marry My Cousin" ) currently unavailable).

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/6af25e7b-0545-42ba-a6fa-82ac1023b4ed

    That documentary was probably made after various reports over the years showing birth defects were higher than average in certain communities. Maybe rather than banning cousin marriage the addidional risks should be made clear, and maybe genetic testing prior to marriage suggested?



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    >^..^<

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  • From billy bookcase@21:1/5 to kat on Tue Dec 10 13:33:37 2024
    "kat" <littlelionne@hotmail.com> wrote in message news:lrqt21F13gbU1@mid.individual.net...
    On 10/12/2024 12:13, Roger Hayter wrote:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:54:44 GMT, "JNugent" <JNugent73@mail.com> wrote:

    On 09/12/2024 11:11 pm, LionelEdwards wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    "Incestuous" as used there is a legal term. What you describe wasn't
    illegal because there wasn't (and still isn't) a law against it. Make
    provision in law for a prohibition on sexual relationshiops between
    first cousins and it *will* be incestuous.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It was explained today that there are heightened concerns about
    in-breeding effects. Presumably, this arises out of the results of
    research which were not available to our Victorian ancestors.

    Not, though, that very much was said about the research or the
    conclusions drawn therefrom.

    Sadly, it seems that the moral panic is more about non-white people doing it >> than anything else.


    Not really, it's a genetic risk. It just happens that within the Asian community it
    happens more often for various reasons. This report is worth a read. It is about a
    BBC3 progam shown some years ago called "Should I Marry My Cousin" ) currently
    unavailable).

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/6af25e7b-0545-42ba-a6fa-82ac1023b4ed

    That documentary was probably made after various reports over the years showing birth
    defects were higher than average in certain communities. Maybe rather than banning
    cousin marriage the addidional risks should be made clear, and maybe genetic testing
    prior to marriage suggested?

    quote:

    Norfolk folk are sicker because they are inbred, says local MP

    Now, one of its MPs has caused uproar by stating publicly that people
    in Norfolk are inbred.

    Dr Ian Gibson, the Norwich North MP and former chairman of the Commons
    science and technology committee, proposed inbreeding as a reason for
    the high incidence of diabetes among children in the area.

    "I would imagine it is linked to the fact that people in Norfolk are quite inbred, with many not leaving the county," he told the Eastern Daily Press
    this week. "It is something that needs to be looked at as a priority, especially as many cases are linked to obesity, too."

    :unquote

    https://www.telegraph.co.uk/expat/expatfeedback/4201036/Norfolk-folk-are-sicker-because-they-are-inbred-says-local-MP.html


    bb

    "The gift that keps on giving" Nofolk MP incest

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  • From Jethro_uk@21:1/5 to kat on Tue Dec 10 13:58:33 2024
    On Tue, 10 Dec 2024 13:12:33 +0000, kat wrote:

    On 10/12/2024 12:13, Roger Hayter wrote:
    [quoted text muted]

    Not really, it's a genetic risk. It just happens that within the Asian community it happens more often for various reasons.

    A one off is minimal risk.

    It's the *repeated* couplings that increase risk. Probably exponentially.

    If people move around *and* have no barriers to interclass marriages (we
    are assuming here that marriages is a shorthand for having babies) that
    minimal risk is mitigated.

    However if populations don't travel *and* actively work to prevent
    interclass marriages (the Hindu caste system, for example). Then you will
    have problems.

    It is axiomatic that aristocrats and royals must have "sneaked in" some
    fresh DNA over the centuries as they would have been well aware of the
    risks. With the obvious reason that pure bloodline was very much a second fiddle to keeping stuff in the family.

    Interestingly the Romans circumvented this issue by being very into
    (adult) adoption. The most famous example being Octavian (later
    Augustus), the adopted heir to Caesar.

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  • From David@21:1/5 to Roland Perry on Tue Dec 10 14:36:33 2024
    On 10/12/2024 07:22, Roland Perry wrote:
    In message <9288960324.590aca1c@uninhabited.net>, at 01:08:09 on Tue, 10
    Dec 2024, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> remarked:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many people
    in this
    country are not apparently aware that we are not part of America.

    See

    https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-commons-backs-proposal-to-ban-first-cousin-marriage-but-mp-speaks-out-against-it-12593360

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  • From Andy Walker@21:1/5 to All on Tue Dec 10 15:07:38 2024
    On 10/12/2024 13:58, Jethro_uk wrote:
    It is axiomatic that aristocrats and royals must have "sneaked in" some
    fresh DNA over the centuries as they would have been well aware of the
    risks.

    It would be highly surprising if they hadn't snuck in some fresh
    DNA -- many of them have been notorious for having mistresses [esp when
    they were married off for dynastic reasons rather than for love] -- but
    I don't see how it was "axiomatic". It's also unclear how "aware" they
    might have been of the risks [until recently, as genetics became better understood].

    But there is a common perception of royals and aristocrats being inbred. It's perhaps worth pointing out that royals had a choice among
    the many royal houses of Europe, and aristocrats equally among the many families of the aristocracy, no more inbred than village doctors, vicars, farmers and teachers who primarily had the choice of similar professionals
    in the nearby villages, or farm workers who rarely left their own villages except to help their masters take animals and produce to market. Before
    the 19thC, most people were pretty much stuck with their neighbours; and royals and aristocrats had much bigger neighbourhoods than commoners.

    --
    Andy Walker, Nottingham.
    Andy's music pages: www.cuboid.me.uk/andy/Music
    Composer of the day: www.cuboid.me.uk/andy/Music/Composers/Forbes

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  • From David@21:1/5 to LionelEdwards on Tue Dec 10 18:38:44 2024
    On Mon, 09 Dec 2024 23:11:55 +0000, LionelEdwards wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was incestuous? It never was and
    Victoria and Albert's marriage attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    Glad that you said relationship and not marriage.
    It would be very old fashioned to legislate against marriage on the
    assumption that having children didn't happen outside wedlock.

    It may be that the target is marriage for dynastic purposes, and also to
    obtain a dowry.
    In that case banning marriage could be effective.

    This does seem suspiciously like an attack on certain cultures/religions.

    Cheers



    Dave R


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  • From Roger Hayter@21:1/5 to David on Tue Dec 10 18:50:14 2024
    On 10 Dec 2024 at 18:38:44 GMT, "David" <wibble@btinternet.com> wrote:

    On Mon, 09 Dec 2024 23:11:55 +0000, LionelEdwards wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain terms) that a
    relationship with our first cousin was incestuous? It never was and
    Victoria and Albert's marriage attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    Glad that you said relationship and not marriage.
    It would be very old fashioned to legislate against marriage on the assumption that having children didn't happen outside wedlock.

    It may be that the target is marriage for dynastic purposes, and also to obtain a dowry.
    In that case banning marriage could be effective.

    This does seem suspiciously like an attack on certain cultures/religions.

    Cheers



    Dave R

    Generally speaking, attacking a certain culture because of its unwise choices of otherwise legal behaviours would seem pretty obviously racist. We don't
    make Gregs, or fish and chips, illegal because they are an unwise choice of
    the white majority, even though quantitatively they probably have a much greater impact on the NHS.

    --

    Roger Hayter

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  • From Sam Plusnet@21:1/5 to All on Tue Dec 10 19:53:12 2024
    On 10/12/2024 11:49, Max Demian wrote:

    <Quoting MP Richard Holden>

    "Building on my previous work to ban hymenoplasty and so-called
    virginity testing in the last Parliament"

    Were there any virgins in the last Parliament? And what was his
    interest in this topic?

    --
    Sam Plusnet

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  • From Sam Plusnet@21:1/5 to All on Tue Dec 10 19:48:00 2024
    On 10/12/2024 13:58, Jethro_uk wrote:
    On Tue, 10 Dec 2024 13:12:33 +0000, kat wrote:

    On 10/12/2024 12:13, Roger Hayter wrote:
    [quoted text muted]

    Not really, it's a genetic risk. It just happens that within the Asian
    community it happens more often for various reasons.

    A one off is minimal risk.

    It's the *repeated* couplings that increase risk. Probably exponentially.

    If people move around *and* have no barriers to interclass marriages (we
    are assuming here that marriages is a shorthand for having babies) that minimal risk is mitigated.

    However if populations don't travel *and* actively work to prevent
    interclass marriages (the Hindu caste system, for example). Then you will have problems.

    It is axiomatic that aristocrats and royals must have "sneaked in" some
    fresh DNA over the centuries as they would have been well aware of the
    risks. With the obvious reason that pure bloodline was very much a second fiddle to keeping stuff in the family.

    Interestingly the Romans circumvented this issue by being very into
    (adult) adoption. The most famous example being Octavian (later
    Augustus), the adopted heir to Caesar.

    Also his heir, Tiberius.

    --
    Sam Plusnet

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  • From John Levine@21:1/5 to All on Tue Dec 10 20:58:21 2024
    According to Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org>:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote:
    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many people in this >country are not apparently aware that we are not part of America.

    Marriage in the US is entirely* a matter of state law, and as a US
    resident I can assure you that no two state laws are the same. It's
    legal in about half of the states, illegal in others, and some have
    rules like it's OK if both are over 65. This Wikipedia article has a
    handy chart.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage_law_in_the_United_States

    I gather that the reasons it's forbidden have less to do with potential
    genetic issues than with social concerns and has been lumped in with
    polygamy and child marriage. Here in New York I am allowed to marry
    my cousin but not my aunt or niece or uncle or nephew.

    * - except that the "full faith and credit" clause of the US constitution requires all states to recognize marriages in other states which has caused some issues in the past with marriages between people of different races or
    of the same sex.
    --
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    John Levine, johnl@taugh.com, Primary Perpetrator of "The Internet for Dummies",
    Please consider the environment before reading this e-mail. https://jl.ly

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  • From Roger Hayter@21:1/5 to Sam Plusnet on Tue Dec 10 20:09:35 2024
    On 10 Dec 2024 at 19:53:12 GMT, "Sam Plusnet" <not@home.com> wrote:

    On 10/12/2024 11:49, Max Demian wrote:

    <Quoting MP Richard Holden>

    "Building on my previous work to ban hymenoplasty and so-called
    virginity testing in the last Parliament"

    Were there any virgins in the last Parliament? And what was his
    interest in this topic?

    Judging by this GBNews article, pretty straight-forward populist Islamophohia.

    https://www.gbnews.com/politics/iqbal-mohamed-gaza-mp-first-cousin-marriages-richard-holden

    I particularly like "pro-Gaza MP" (is anyone but few Israeli zealots *opposed* to Gaza as an entity - its not a country?) as implying his support for an illegal organisation without risking a defamation action



    --
    Roger Hayter

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  • From Roger Hayter@21:1/5 to Roger Hayter on Tue Dec 10 21:43:37 2024
    On 10 Dec 2024 at 20:09:35 GMT, "Roger Hayter" <roger@hayter.org> wrote:

    On 10 Dec 2024 at 19:53:12 GMT, "Sam Plusnet" <not@home.com> wrote:

    On 10/12/2024 11:49, Max Demian wrote:

    <Quoting MP Richard Holden>

    "Building on my previous work to ban hymenoplasty and so-called
    virginity testing in the last Parliament"

    Were there any virgins in the last Parliament? And what was his
    interest in this topic?

    Judging by this GBNews article, pretty straight-forward populist Islamophohia.

    https://www.gbnews.com/politics/iqbal-mohamed-gaza-mp-first-cousin-marriages-richard-holden

    I particularly like "pro-Gaza MP" (is anyone but few Israeli zealots *opposed*
    to Gaza as an entity - its not a country?) as implying his support for an illegal organisation without risking a defamation action

    The other thing of note is whether he actually wants to make sex between first cousins illegal, like the existing incest laws. If not, the only effect of his marriage law will be to make first cousin marriages in minority communities into clandestine religious marriages, vastly reducing the security of the
    women involved.

    --

    Roger Hayter

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  • From billy bookcase@21:1/5 to John Levine on Tue Dec 10 21:28:53 2024
    "John Levine" <johnl@taugh.com> wrote in message news:vjaa1d$f3n$1@gal.iecc.com...
    According to Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org>:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote:
    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many people in this >>country are not apparently aware that we are not part of America.

    Marriage in the US is entirely* a matter of state law, and as a US
    resident I can assure you that no two state laws are the same. It's
    legal in about half of the states, illegal in others, and some have
    rules like it's OK if both are over 65. This Wikipedia article has a
    handy chart.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage_law_in_the_United_States

    I gather that the reasons it's forbidden have less to do with potential genetic issues than with social concerns and has been lumped in with
    polygamy and child marriage. Here in New York I am allowed to marry
    my cousin but not my aunt or niece or uncle or nephew.

    * - except that the "full faith and credit" clause of the US constitution requires all states to recognize marriages in other states which has caused some issues in the past with marriages between people of different races or of the same sex.

    And not just cousins

    quote:

    In Florida, 16,400 children, some as young as 13, were married from 2000 to 2017,
    which is the second highest incidence of child marriage after Texas.[39]

    :unquote

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_marriage_in_the_United_States#U.S._states

    Although to be fair, 22 yr old Jerry Lee Lewis's 13 year old child bride
    Myra Gale, who caused such a storm when she accompanied him on his visit
    to England in 1958, was only his first cousin once removed. While
    Lewis was apprently still married to his first wife, at the time.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myra_Lewis_Williams


    bb

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  • From Sam Plusnet@21:1/5 to Roger Hayter on Wed Dec 11 01:14:36 2024
    On 10/12/2024 21:43, Roger Hayter wrote:
    On 10 Dec 2024 at 20:09:35 GMT, "Roger Hayter" <roger@hayter.org> wrote:

    On 10 Dec 2024 at 19:53:12 GMT, "Sam Plusnet" <not@home.com> wrote:

    On 10/12/2024 11:49, Max Demian wrote:

    <Quoting MP Richard Holden>

    "Building on my previous work to ban hymenoplasty and so-called
    virginity testing in the last Parliament"

    Were there any virgins in the last Parliament? And what was his
    interest in this topic?

    Judging by this GBNews article, pretty straight-forward populist Islamophohia.

    https://www.gbnews.com/politics/iqbal-mohamed-gaza-mp-first-cousin-marriages-richard-holden

    I particularly like "pro-Gaza MP" (is anyone but few Israeli zealots *opposed*
    to Gaza as an entity - its not a country?) as implying his support for an
    illegal organisation without risking a defamation action

    The other thing of note is whether he actually wants to make sex between first
    cousins illegal, like the existing incest laws. If not, the only effect of his
    marriage law will be to make first cousin marriages in minority communities into clandestine religious marriages, vastly reducing the security of the women involved.

    Surely it's just the Parliamentary equivalent of click-bait?
    It has no purpose other than to draw attention.

    --
    Sam Plusnet

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  • From Brian@21:1/5 to LionelEdwards on Wed Dec 11 09:05:24 2024
    LionelEdwards <dougstaples@gmx.com> wrote:
    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?



    I suspect it wasn’t as common as perhaps it now is.

    True, historically, it was known - perhaps common- in Royal circles and, I understand, has been identified as the cause for some conditions / characteristics which - at least historically- were seen in the various families. ( The Happisburgh Chin, Hemophillia for example.) However, in the general population - while it may have occurred- it was probably not
    repeated down the generations.

    As someone else pointed out, it is illegal in ( at least some states of)
    the US. I don’t pretend to be an expert but I suspect this may be linked to the history. As the population spread across the huge Country, the ‘pool’ of potential partners would limited. As a result, first cousins may have married etc, not only in one generation but down several. Eventually, the problems this can cause would manifest themselves and laws were introduced.


    I understand marrying cousins isn’t unusual in some minority ( in the UK) cultures. As much as I respect peoples’ cultures ( provided they don’t impact others etc), clearly there is a potential medical / moral issue
    here.

    The occasional first cousin marriage probably doesn’t cause a problem. Repeating the process down the generations is the problem. How do you
    allow one but prevent the other?

    The US have blood tests but, AFAIK, these are not detailed genetic tests.
    If nothing else blood testing was introduced long before genetic testing
    was available and, AFAIK, has not changed in detail.

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  • From Roland Perry@21:1/5 to All on Wed Dec 11 09:50:16 2024
    In message <vj9jlh$10e3j$1@dont-email.me>, at 14:36:33 on Tue, 10 Dec
    2024, David <david@nospam.com> remarked:
    On 10/12/2024 07:22, Roland Perry wrote:
    In message <9288960324.590aca1c@uninhabited.net>, at 01:08:09 on Tue,
    10 Dec 2024, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> remarked:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many people
    in this
    country are not apparently aware that we are not part of America.

    See

    https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-commons-backs-proposal-to-ban >-first-cousin-marriage-but-mp-speaks-out-against-it-12593360

    It's a Private Members Bill (and First Reading), so just someone flying
    a kite that has 1% chance of going anywhere.
    --
    Roland Perry

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  • From Roger Hayter@21:1/5 to Brian on Thu Dec 12 19:42:27 2024
    On 12 Dec 2024 at 19:38:59 GMT, "Brian" <noinv@lid.org> wrote:

    Roland Perry <roland@perry.uk> wrote:
    In message <vj9jlh$10e3j$1@dont-email.me>, at 14:36:33 on Tue, 10 Dec
    2024, David <david@nospam.com> remarked:
    On 10/12/2024 07:22, Roland Perry wrote:
    In message <9288960324.590aca1c@uninhabited.net>, at 01:08:09 on Tue,
    10 Dec 2024, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> remarked:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote: >>>>>
    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many people >>>>> in this
    country are not apparently aware that we are not part of America.

    See

    https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-commons-backs-proposal-to-ban >>> -first-cousin-marriage-but-mp-speaks-out-against-it-12593360

    It's a Private Members Bill (and First Reading), so just someone flying
    a kite that has 1% chance of going anywhere.

    May be but, equally, it could be asked why the issue isn’t being addressed by the Government.

    Perhaps because since the Reformation we haven't wanted to address it, because it is an unwarranted interference in private life. Which only seems to be proposed now because we don't like certain ethnic groups (doing it).

    --
    Roger Hayter

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  • From Brian@21:1/5 to Roland Perry on Thu Dec 12 19:38:59 2024
    Roland Perry <roland@perry.uk> wrote:
    In message <vj9jlh$10e3j$1@dont-email.me>, at 14:36:33 on Tue, 10 Dec
    2024, David <david@nospam.com> remarked:
    On 10/12/2024 07:22, Roland Perry wrote:
    In message <9288960324.590aca1c@uninhabited.net>, at 01:08:09 on Tue,
    10 Dec 2024, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> remarked:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote:

    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many people
    in this
    country are not apparently aware that we are not part of America.

    See

    https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-commons-backs-proposal-to-ban
    -first-cousin-marriage-but-mp-speaks-out-against-it-12593360

    It's a Private Members Bill (and First Reading), so just someone flying
    a kite that has 1% chance of going anywhere.

    May be but, equally, it could be asked why the issue isn’t being addressed
    by the Government.

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  • From Roland Perry@21:1/5 to All on Sun Dec 15 10:03:50 2024
    In message <vjfe4j$2tgio$1@dont-email.me>, at 19:38:59 on Thu, 12 Dec
    2024, Brian <noinv@lid.org> remarked:
    Roland Perry <roland@perry.uk> wrote:
    In message <vj9jlh$10e3j$1@dont-email.me>, at 14:36:33 on Tue, 10 Dec
    2024, David <david@nospam.com> remarked:
    On 10/12/2024 07:22, Roland Perry wrote:
    In message <9288960324.590aca1c@uninhabited.net>, at 01:08:09 on Tue,
    10 Dec 2024, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> remarked:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote: >>>>>
    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many people >>>>> in this
    country are not apparently aware that we are not part of America.

    See

    https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-commons-backs-proposal-to-ban >>> -first-cousin-marriage-but-mp-speaks-out-against-it-12593360

    It's a Private Members Bill (and First Reading), so just someone flying
    a kite that has 1% chance of going anywhere.

    May be but, equally, it could be asked why the issue isn’t being addressed >by the Government.

    Because they already have a hundred more important things on their
    plate.
    --
    Roland Perry

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  • From Spike@21:1/5 to Roland Perry on Sun Dec 15 12:13:33 2024
    Roland Perry <roland@perry.uk> wrote:
    In message <vjfe4j$2tgio$1@dont-email.me>, at 19:38:59 on Thu, 12 Dec
    2024, Brian <noinv@lid.org> remarked:
    Roland Perry <roland@perry.uk> wrote:
    In message <vj9jlh$10e3j$1@dont-email.me>, at 14:36:33 on Tue, 10 Dec
    2024, David <david@nospam.com> remarked:
    On 10/12/2024 07:22, Roland Perry wrote:
    In message <9288960324.590aca1c@uninhabited.net>, at 01:08:09 on Tue, >>>>> 10 Dec 2024, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> remarked:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote: >>>>>>
    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many people >>>>>> in this
    country are not apparently aware that we are not part of America.

    See

    https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-commons-backs-proposal-to-ban >>>> -first-cousin-marriage-but-mp-speaks-out-against-it-12593360

    It's a Private Members Bill (and First Reading), so just someone flying
    a kite that has 1% chance of going anywhere.

    May be but, equally, it could be asked why the issue isn’t being addressed >> by the Government.

    Because they already have a hundred more important things on their
    plate.

    Such as rapidly-falling popularity, increased unemployment due to rises in National Insurance, bursting prisons, growth slowed due to their budget… Change, eh? Bites both ways.

    --
    Spike

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  • From Roland Perry@21:1/5 to All on Sun Dec 15 14:57:57 2024
    In message <ls7vfdF4ed8U1@mid.individual.net>, at 12:13:33 on Sun, 15
    Dec 2024, Spike <aero.spike@mail.com> remarked:
    Roland Perry <roland@perry.uk> wrote:
    In message <vjfe4j$2tgio$1@dont-email.me>, at 19:38:59 on Thu, 12 Dec
    2024, Brian <noinv@lid.org> remarked:
    Roland Perry <roland@perry.uk> wrote:
    In message <vj9jlh$10e3j$1@dont-email.me>, at 14:36:33 on Tue, 10 Dec
    2024, David <david@nospam.com> remarked:
    On 10/12/2024 07:22, Roland Perry wrote:
    In message <9288960324.590aca1c@uninhabited.net>, at 01:08:09 on Tue, >>>>>> 10 Dec 2024, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> remarked:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote: >>>>>>>
    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many
    in this country are not apparently aware that we are not part >>>>>>>of America.

    See

    https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-commons-backs-proposal-to-ban >>>>> -first-cousin-marriage-but-mp-speaks-out-against-it-12593360

    It's a Private Members Bill (and First Reading), so just someone flying >>>> a kite that has 1% chance of going anywhere.

    May be but, equally, it could be asked why the issue isn’t being addressed
    by the Government.

    Because they already have a hundred more important things on their
    plate.

    Such as rapidly-falling popularity, increased unemployment due to rises in >National Insurance, bursting prisons, growth slowed due to their budget… >Change, eh? Bites both ways.

    I was thinking more about those policy issues which require
    Parliamentary time. You can start with all the measures in the
    King's Speech.
    --
    Roland Perry

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  • From Spike@21:1/5 to Roland Perry on Sun Dec 15 15:55:37 2024
    Roland Perry <roland@perry.uk> wrote:
    In message <ls7vfdF4ed8U1@mid.individual.net>, at 12:13:33 on Sun, 15
    Dec 2024, Spike <aero.spike@mail.com> remarked:
    Roland Perry <roland@perry.uk> wrote:
    In message <vjfe4j$2tgio$1@dont-email.me>, at 19:38:59 on Thu, 12 Dec
    2024, Brian <noinv@lid.org> remarked:
    Roland Perry <roland@perry.uk> wrote:
    In message <vj9jlh$10e3j$1@dont-email.me>, at 14:36:33 on Tue, 10 Dec >>>>> 2024, David <david@nospam.com> remarked:
    On 10/12/2024 07:22, Roland Perry wrote:
    In message <9288960324.590aca1c@uninhabited.net>, at 01:08:09 on Tue, >>>>>>> 10 Dec 2024, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> remarked:
    On 9 Dec 2024 at 23:11:55 GMT, "LionelEdwards" <LionelEdwards> wrote: >>>>>>>>
    I imagine that many of us were told (in no uncertain
    terms) that a relationship with our first cousin was
    incestuous? It never was and Victoria and Albert's marriage
    attests to that.

    Why make it illegal now?

    It is illegal in America (perhaps varies with state) and many
    in this country are not apparently aware that we are not part >>>>>>>> of America.

    See

    https://news.sky.com/story/politics-latest-commons-backs-proposal-to-ban >>>>>> -first-cousin-marriage-but-mp-speaks-out-against-it-12593360

    It's a Private Members Bill (and First Reading), so just someone flying >>>>> a kite that has 1% chance of going anywhere.

    May be but, equally, it could be asked why the issue isn’t being addressed
    by the Government.

    Because they already have a hundred more important things on their
    plate.

    Such as rapidly-falling popularity, increased unemployment due to rises in >> National Insurance, bursting prisons, growth slowed due to their budget… >> Change, eh? Bites both ways.

    I was thinking more about those policy issues which require
    Parliamentary time. You can start with all the measures in the
    King's Speech.

    I’ll bet that No.1 by far on the Labour government’s list of things to be done is what they need to do to get re-elected. It might not have been
    explicit in either the Manifesto or the King’s speech, but five gets ten that’s going to be their driver.

    --
    Spike

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